Sounding 101: Comprehensive UK Sounding Guide
I’ve been working in luxury adult stores for almost a decade and believe I have become a pro, fully capable of offering a Sounding 101 guide. If someone had told me when I first started working in the industry that I’d end up inserting pieces of metal down my penis years later, I would have looked at them with a mix of shock, horror, and disbelief.
I would have confidently told them, “Things do not slide into my cock; my cock slides into things.” That would have been the end of it, with the idea never crossing my mind again.
But life doesn’t always work that way, does it?
Fast forward a number of years, and here I am. Not only has my perception of pornography shifted—I now enjoy bi-sex porn despite being heterosexual—but I’ve also embraced the practice of penis plugs and sounds. It’s funny how times change, isn’t it?
This guide was written with beginners in mind, combining my personal experiences to ensure you don’t make the same mistakes I did. Think of it as a “Sounding for Dummies” guide, but with a more personal touch.
Beginners Sounding Guide From an Expert
There are numerous implements and methods for inserting objects into the urethra. For the purpose of this article, I’ll keep things safe, clean, and, most importantly, enjoyable.
Penis Plugs vs. Sounds
Before diving into the details, it’s essential to understand the difference between penis plugs and sounds. These terms are often used interchangeably, but they refer to two distinct tools with different purposes.
The Similarities
Both penis plugs and sounds are inserted into the urethra through the tip of the penis. They both enhance sexual pleasure through urethral play.
The Differences
Penis plugs are primarily designed for use during sexual activities or masturbation. Many plugs are worn like jewelry, with some hollow designs allowing semen and urine to pass through. They are generally shorter than sounds, often no longer than half a finger. To prevent them from slipping out, plugs may have ribs or notches that help them stay in place.
In contrast, sounds are longer and smoother, sometimes reaching as far as the bladder. They are designed to move in and out of the penis, offering a massaging effect. Sounds can also be used by women, making them versatile tools for sexual exploration.
Three Things I Learned About Sounding
Overcoming the Mental Block
One of the biggest challenges I faced was getting past the mental hurdle of inserting something into my penis. The idea might sound as daunting as sticking yourself with a needle, but once I conquered that mental block, I discovered how pleasurable it could be.
Using a toy on yourself is one thing, but introducing it into a relationship takes the experience to another level. There’s a unique intimacy that comes from sharing this kind of play with a partner, something you can’t replicate alone.
Knowing Your Limits
As someone who considers himself fairly adventurous—owning cock rings, leather gear, and an assortment of kinky items—I was still hesitant about urethral stimulation. It ranked high on my personal kink scale, pushing me well beyond my comfort zone.
Investing in Quality Tools
When it comes to sounding, quality matters. While it might be tempting to save money with cheaper toys, it’s crucial to stick to surgical-grade steel. Inferior materials can introduce risks that are simply not worth it.
What’s Urethral Sounding?
Urethral sounding, often called penis stuffing or cock sounding, involves inserting a metal rod (or sound) into the urethra. It’s a misunderstood practice, sometimes unfairly associated with pain or constriction.
From personal experience, I can tell you that once the mental block is overcome, sounding provides an extraordinary mix of pain and pleasure. The pain, if present, is light and manageable, offering a unique sensation that amplifies genital sensitivity. With a sound inserted, even the lightest touch can send waves of pleasure, transforming the way you experience masturbation or sex.
The Sounds
Most sounds are straight, making them ideal for beginners. Advanced users might explore curved designs for more intense sensations. Popular choices for first-time users include Hegar, Dittle, Pratt, and Rosebud sets.
When selecting a sound, surgical-grade steel is the best material for durability and safety. Silicone is another good option for its flexibility and ease of sterilization. Avoid materials like glass, which pose significant risks if they break or shatter during use.
Penis Plugs
Penis plugs, unlike sounds, are designed to stay in place after insertion. They may be held in by a glans ring or feature a bulbous end that the urethra grips. Think of them as decorative yet functional jewelry for the penis.
With countless designs available, from smooth and tapered to ribbed and textured, there’s something for everyone. Custom options are even available for those seeking something truly unique.
Lube Up!
Lubrication is critical for safe and pleasurable sounding. Choose a surgical-grade lubricant or one free from glycerin to avoid UTIs. Avoid using saliva, as it dries quickly and can introduce bacteria, leading to friction and potential injury.
What to Do Next
Before starting, ensure your tools and hands are thoroughly cleaned and sterilized. Once ready, apply lubricant to the sound and your penis. Insert the sound slowly and gently, stopping immediately if you encounter resistance or pain.
After your session, urinate to flush out any impurities and clean your toys again to maintain hygiene.
Experiment With Shapes and Sizes
Once you’re comfortable, try experimenting with different shapes, sizes, and techniques. Rotating a sound during insertion can offer a unique and sensual experience.
Stick with medium-sized sounds to start, avoiding overly small ones that may move around inside the urethra, causing damage.
When It’s Over
A slight burning sensation during urination is normal after sounding and typically resolves quickly. If discomfort persists beyond 24 hours, consult a healthcare professional to rule out any complications.
Finishing Up
Always clean your toys thoroughly and store them in a safe place. Sounding can be a deeply pleasurable activity, but safety and hygiene must remain your top priorities.
How to Sterilize Your Penis Plug or Urethral Sounding Device at Home
Sterilizing your penis plug or urethral sounding device is crucial for safe play, as it minimizes the risk of infection and irritation. Follow this step-by-step guide to ensure your toys are properly sterilized at home.
Prepare Your Tools and Workspace
Start by designating a clean workspace. Use a surface that’s been wiped down with a disinfectant to avoid contamination. Gather the items you’ll need, including your penis plug or sound, a pot for boiling water, a pair of tongs, antibacterial soap, and a clean, lint-free towel.
Wash the Device Thoroughly
Before sterilizing, wash the penis plug or sound with warm water and antibacterial soap. This step removes visible debris, lubricant, or bodily fluids. Pay extra attention to ridges, grooves, or textured areas where residue can hide. Rinse thoroughly to ensure no soap remains.
Boil the Device
Place the clean device in a pot of water, ensuring it’s fully submerged. Bring the water to a rolling boil and let the device sit for 20–30 minutes. This process kills bacteria, viruses, and fungi. Use tongs to remove the device from the boiling water to avoid contamination.
Air Dry on a Clean Surface
Place the sterilized device on a clean, lint-free towel or drying rack. Allow it to air dry completely before storing or using it. Avoid touching the device with your hands after sterilization unless they’ve been washed thoroughly.
Store Properly
Once dry, store your penis plug or sound in a sterile container, such as a zip-lock bag or a case designed for medical instruments. This prevents contamination before its next use.
Common Mistakes to Avoid When Using Penis Plugs and Sounds
Skipping Proper Lubrication
One of the most common mistakes is failing to use enough lubrication or using the wrong type. Proper lubrication is essential for smooth insertion and to avoid microtears in the urethra. Always choose a medical-grade, water-based lubricant without glycerin to reduce the risk of irritation or infection.
Not Sterilizing Thoroughly
Some users believe rinsing their tools with soap and water is enough, but this falls short of proper sterilization. Without boiling or using a medical-grade disinfectant, bacteria can remain on the surface and lead to infections. Never skip the sterilization process before and after each use.
Forcing the Device
Forcing a penis plug or sound into the urethra can cause tears, pain, and long-term damage. If you encounter resistance, stop immediately. Take your time, use more lubricant, and consider starting with a smaller size to allow your body to adjust gradually.
Choosing the Wrong Material or Size
Using non-medical-grade materials, such as cheap metals or even glass, can pose serious risks. Similarly, starting with a size too large or too small can cause discomfort or complications. Always opt for surgical-grade steel or silicone and consult a sizing guide to choose appropriately.
Ignoring Signs of Infection or Discomfort
Burning sensations, persistent pain, or unusual discharge can indicate infection or injury. Ignoring these symptoms can lead to more severe complications. Seek medical advice promptly if anything feels off after a session.
My Final Thoughts
I used to think the idea of urethral sounding was downright absurd. Sticking something down there? No thanks. But here I am, years later, not just enjoying it but sharing my experiences to help others explore it safely. Funny how things change, right?
Sounding isn’t for everyone, and that’s perfectly fine. For me, it’s more than just a physical sensation—it’s amplified pleasure, a deeper connection with myself, and a way to shake up the routine.
If you’re curious, I’d say go for it, but do it the right way. Grab the good tools (surgical-grade, please!), slather on the lube, and take it slow. Respect your body, listen to it, and don’t force anything.